Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Knock Knock
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Saturday, August 11, 2007
About Self Respect
“ If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.”
“ It is the highest form of self-respect to admit our errors and mistakes and make amends for them.
To make a mistake is only an error in judgement, but to adhere to it when it is discovered shows infirmity of character”
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
What I Learned ... After A While
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning,
And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With the grace of a woman,
And you learn
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns
So, you plant your own garden,and decorate your own soul...
And you learn that you really can endure…
And you learn, and you learn…
Dinner at ElCerdo
Personally..there was just too much pork for me ;p Guess because I am not a real pork eater except for the occasional pork chop, bak kut teh and 'siu yok'. But this restaurant is quite well known and it's usually fully booked unless reservations are made.
Sunday, August 05, 2007
Reunion Gathering
You know how when you were younger and can't understand how your parents keeps repeating stories again and again..and you're wondering 'don't they ever get tired of them'..well we were like our parents last night. Reminiscing old times. There were a lot of laughter.
Most of them I've known since primary school, some from high school and others from college. Can you believe that Jess and I have known each other for about 22 years!! Some are married or are getting married, one's even expecting!! Congrats Gary and Chris.
I am truly blessed to have great friends like you guys!!!
Thursday, August 02, 2007
Ultrawoman Wannabe
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
I CAN SEE!
Never knew I would have gotten lasik done so soon. Well..firstly's because I was terrified. I don't think I can stand someone touching my eyes. What's more, I will be fully awake during the procedure - I can see everything??!! With my mum constantly bugging me about it (she works in an eye hospital which sees eye infections all the time)- about how bad contacts can be for you etc, I guess I did it more for her sake then my own.
This is when one will have to say - Mum knows best. The procedure was painless (eyes were numbed) and it was really interesting to see how one's cornea is flipped open (yes I saw all of that). Recovery time was short. I feel great now. Love the freedom that I have. Highly recommend it.
Check out Excelview in Midvalley if you're interested. Great doctors and nurses there (mum's friends)
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Desire
Combine these two meanings and you get the essence of longing – to desire what you lack.
To understand a person’s desire, you must first identify the lack it conceals
Bro's Thanksgiving Dinner
Friday, July 27, 2007
Love Complicated... Is it?
“I am confused. I don’t know what to do. How?”
When someone asks you that, what do you say? What can you say? They come for your advice, you try to give the best you can; and then they say that it’s so complicated. Is it really?
Do you choose old love or new love? Faithful love or passionate love? Do you chose someone who has been there for you all these years, whom you know in and out; or do you chose someone who is new and exciting, someone you don’t know all that well but want to know because that person has potential?
Love is all about taking risks. It’s about a leap of faith. It is not complicated. It is us humans who make it complicated. We make it complicated because we are greedy. We want everything. We want things we already have and we want things we don’t have.
At the end of the day, as many times as we have heard it before, it is all about whom you cannot live or be without. You can be with a lot of people. Come on, we humans are extremely tolerable, though some may beg to disagree. But there are not many people you cannot live without.
When you ask yourself that question – who can’t you live without, and when you imagine your future years ahead and if you can see that person’s face clearly and only if it’s clearly, you will then that he/she is the one.
Once a choice is made, you will realize it wasn’t all that complicated after all. Only then will you find peace.
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Putrajaya
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Responsibility
Daddy… I don’t know how to do this, fix this for me etc
Life was good. Someone takes care of my every need.
Nothing to think of but eating and sleeping, and of course going to school.
Then *PUFF*…and 20 years have passed..
Wake up and back to reality.
People are counting on us. Needing things from us
Realizing now we have responsibilities…
Monday, July 23, 2007
Pasar Malam (Night Markets)
MMmmm Mamak Food
Friday, July 20, 2007
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Response to a posting - chaos/peace
Decisions are nasty to make but they will give you peace . If peace is what you want, then decision is what you have to make. It’s a difficult pill to swallow, but like what your mum will tell you when you were sick, you have to take the medicine to make the sickness and pain go away. If not, the sickness will only spread and make you worst.
Procrastinating will not make it better. It is only later that you will wonder why you did not make a decision earlier.
Friday, July 13, 2007
Bro’s Tin Tin is gone!
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Thanks Kiddo!
You were a special person in my life at a time when I never knew I needed someone. You were always there with open arms. You were more than I asked for. You brought me hope that there are better things out there and that I'm worth it and that I deserve every bit of it.
You will always remain a part of my memory of a time that I will always be grateful for.
Thanks kiddo.
Monday, July 09, 2007
Granpa’s Still Got Groove!!
Wow..imagine my shock. I mean it is a good kind of shock. He’s been a widow for the past 20 years and I think he deserves some happiness.
Now the best part of this whole new news..is that that lady is about 40 years younger than him!! Let's see ..she’s slightly older than his youngest daughter – my aunt. Makes all of us wonder what it is that she sees in him. My granpa’s not exactly “strong” and all. Is it real companionship? Is it genuine? Or is she with him for the money?
Wonder wonder..
Well…whatever it is, I’m just glad he’s happy
Sunday, July 08, 2007
Cerelia and her baby Natalie
Saturday, July 07, 2007
The Hard Questions
There are things in life that are difficult to accept and comprehend, especially when it comes to oneself. When it comes down to one’s ability. We become complacent and stubborn. We try to run our own lives and sometimes we make wrong choices. A lot of time, there isn’t anyone who stops us. Nobody is accountable for us anymore, except ourselves.
We think we know what we want in life. We sound confident. We are sure. Then comes along a person who breaks everything down for you. Someone who asks you the hard questions.
Thanks Jess
Monday, July 02, 2007
Happy Lim
Sunday, July 01, 2007
What?? Was this what I liked?
The first thing that shocked me since I got back was my room. It never changed. It has purple/lavender colored walls, purple cabinets, pink ceiling and pink handprints (they are mine) on my purple cabinet doors. Yes...I used to think that was so cool!!
Guess the first thing on my list is to repaint my room since I have a self-imposed 1 month break from work. I needed this break after all these years.
Thoughts on the Way (2) Almost Home
Sigh..guess this is what happens when one is used to being independent and live out of the country by himself/herself.
Warning to parents who are planning to send their kids overseas to study : After studying and working away from home...they may be reluctant to come home and stay home. So..be real patient with them!! :)
Thoughts on the Way (1) In Transit in Narita
Saying goodbye. Leaving everything I know of for the past 7 years. This is my life, this is ME. This is what I am leaving behind.
The funny thing is, I am used to leaving. I am used to going places. Packing up and leaving, up for new challenges and adventures. But what we don't realize is that the older we get, the longer we stay around, we leave parts of us behind. Usually out hearts.
We build ties and relationships. These bonds that we share are real and strong. It takes a lot to break them. Somtimes it's unbreakable. Therefore to let go, a lot of times we have to break our hearts.
However to move on... we have to let go.
Boy..don't we all wish there was an easier way...
Saturday, June 30, 2007
Aloha A Hui Hou Hawaii
Glancing one last time at my room that I have spent the last 3 years in – reminded of many different times of my life, all the ups and downs. Saying goodbye to my cats. It was as if my cats knew about my leaving. Chloe has been really fussy and she was definitely showing it! When I was saying goodbye to her, she who doesn’t usually stay put for anyone, stayed still and gave me the puss-in-boots look. It was then that I realize that she has been at my side for the past 3 years and kept me company together with Pepper. It was so hard saying goodbye to them.
On the way to the airport, all I could do was stare out the window. Looking at all the views that I am so used to looking at when I am on the H1 freeway. It all reminded me of the time when I first arrived in Hawaii 7 years ago and all this was all new to me. It felt like just yesterday.
Walking away..towards the security checkpoint..with tears in my eyes..glancing back at Su, TM and SG. Realizing that this is real….
Friday, June 29, 2007
My Final Night in Hawaii
I have to say, I am a really lucky girl. I have the greatest bunch of friends who have been with me all these years and it's really sweet that they want to spend every minute i have left here with me. Some even offered to help me pack or keep me company and not let me sleep till the next morning when I fly off.
Bubbies ice-cream!! The mochi ice-cream and the Multiple orgasm (hei..that's what they named it!)
Cool guys- Matt, Byron and Su
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